Can exercise plans help you?
A weird question isn’t it? Recently I came across a 4-step plan for improving one’s health. The steps were; Build a strong foundation Find what drives you Ease into your eating plan Take things in stride So let me tell …
Are you disciplined enough?
Do you really know what discipline means? With these two questions, I might as well be asking myself these questions. I state that because there are some days when I know I’ve failed miserably to be disciplined enough to ‘write …
Are you going for the gold?
Are you trying to accomplish something great? This can be a very dangerous goal if you are doing it just to feel great. I write this through personal experience. Accomplishing something great by itself will leave a very hollow feeling …
Do get upset due to others actions?
Are you concerned about the inaction of many men when it comes to their children? Are you saying; what does this have to do with being resilience? Well this blog is a very important one in this area, so let me …
How do you view suffering?
Is it a chance to blame someone, or is it an opportunity to grow as a person? I ask these questions because of the suffering I see in the world right now. The wars, the terrorism, the killing of innocent …
Is life always perfect?
In other words do you look at life with rose-colored glasses? Or do you look at life’s issues and acknowledge that there could be improvement? This is an issue with many of the positive thinking group. I say that because …
Do you wait for problems to occur?
Or are you proactive in your approach to life’s problems? There is a big difference in these isn’t there? Let me give you an example from a family perspective. Let’s say you have two children and as they are growing …
Do you have control issues?
I hope you said yes, as if you don’t want to have some control; are you being controlled by others? As you know it is very hard to be happy without having some feelings of control or stability in your …
What is hardening of the categories?
Could it be that you don’t listen to those you don’t agree with? If that is your story, you have hardening of the categories. In other words you aren’t willing to hear the other side of the story before you make …
How do people speak about you?
I am not talking about when you are in their presence; I am talking about when you are not there. This makes it a different question doesn’t it? I bring this up due to the fact that a short time …