Do you like all surprises?

Surprises can be exciting or challenging, can’t they?

Yes, life is full of surprises but only a few of them we like. Yes, life surprises and change go hand in hand. If we don’t want to change the surprise of having your spouse walk out the door can be a life altering change. If we take action to surprise some one on a special occasion we enjoy it because we have initiated the surprise.

So what is the issue?

I believe it is because we’ve become calcified in our thinking. By that I mean we have the same thoughts day in and day out. We only want the people in our lives that we like because they do not think differently than we do. We only want to do the same things after work because we are comfortable doing those things.

What can you do to create a new and exciting life?

1. Do things that you don’t always enjoy.
2. Talk to people that have differing views than you do.
3. Try to create the unexpected for the people you associate with. With this I mean suggesting to do something that they really enjoy, but you don’t.

Life will become exciting and full of surprises for you, won’t it?

You will also learn that you’ve been in a rut, won’t you?