Have you been called judgmental?

Does that bother you or have you accepted that name, as who you are?

The other day I thought that maybe the reason why people are judgmental about another person is because they have skepticism over the past actions of this person. Could it be that this person did not keep their word? Could it be that their actions left a lot to be desired?

Now I am not putting the blame on them totally.

Could it be that you should have stated the reasons for your skepticism?

You may not be appreciated, but at least you would have not left people wonder why you were not satisfied with the situation or the person.

Would this help you live your life in clearer less stressful terms?